Couples And Money
Let’s talk about money this week, shall we?
We all know that different people have different perspectives over money. Some are pretty insecure and make it a point to try to account for every penny their partners spend. They insist on a joint account and money to be pooled together.
Then there are others who have this thinking that what is mine is mine and what is yours is yours. In other words, they maintain independent accounts although they may have an understanding of who pays for what.
There are certainly pros and cons to this issue. For instance, if you pool your money together, you are taking steps to save for the future. On the other hand, if you have separate accounts, there is not much pressure to account for money spent which may be better for the relationship as a whole.
For Love Q #14, let me pose this:
Should you have a joint account with your partner? And should you keep tabs on what he or she may be spending on?
All views are welcomed. Looking forward to reading what you have to say.
I am feeling much less cynical this week so I thought I would start playing again (I am sure everyone was getting sick of my ba humbug!)
This is a great website for ocuples and money :
http://www.curemoneymadness.com
and
http://www.financialintimacy.info
mine here
Mine is up at
http://amidrin.blogspot.com/2008/07/love-q-14-couples-and-money.html
I am trying to catch up on answering the old LoveQ questions. I hope you dont mind. =)
http://www.myblueginger.com/2008/09/financial-matters-between-married.html